Faster! Faster! by E. M. Delafield, Harper & Brothers, 1936
I bought this book because it was by E. M. Delafield, the author of The Provincial Lady series of books, which I, like so many, enjoyed. This novel, while interesting, was less accomplished and enjoyable than the PL books, perhaps because its rather ordinary third-person narrator lacks the sparkle and wit of the PL's first-person voice.
The (tragic) heroine* of Faster! Faster! (I love titles with punctuation marks, especially exclamation points) is a bright, attractive, accomplished, 40-ish English woman of good breeding (there's a family house) but small means (no money to upkeep the mortgaged house). . Her husband is a sometimes charming but mostly irritable and annoying fellow who is unemployed (it's the Depression and jobs are scarce). They have three pleasant and intelligent children who they are raising in a modern way, allowing their two daughters and one son to make their own choices (and subsequent mistakes).
What makes this book interesting is that it very directly explores a social dilemma that is common today, but was less prevalent a century ago: Can a woman be equally devoted to and invested in her career and her family? That challenge is the undoing of our heroine, who, partly because her husband isn't winning any bread but mostly because she's good at it and enjoys it, runs a successful agency in London called Universal Services. This small agency, which is staffed exclusively with competent and hard-working women, does all the things no one wants to do themselves (the ultimate women's work): schlepping children to schools and doctors, paying bills and filling out forms, dealing with bureaucracy, translating documents, cleaning up literal and figurative messes, nursing the ill, and burying the dead.
Our heroine runs Universal Services with tireless energy and microscopic attention to detail, and tries to devote equal time and care to her husband and children. But of course that can't be done, and everyone realizes she is exhausted and must take a rest. And the reader begins to wonder if her hands-off approach to child-rearing is not a philosophical choice but a desperate coping technique, as her hands are full of work. And so we observe, along with her family and friends, as she drives herself (quite literally -- a traffic accident) to death.
This strange and tragic conclusion to a book that is often sunny and delightful might seem jarring, bit it is appropriate, for we all know that it is impossible to be a perfect wife and mother and have a successful career, unless one has made a bargain with the devil or is Amy Coney Barrett (or both).
*Of course I have forgotten her name.